Monday, September 17, 2018

Don't Beg for Love, Let Them Walk Away.

πŸ“Bangkok, Thailand


This might a very difficult topic to write, because the heart-broken situation's just recently happened to me. I had never expected to be in a position of being dumped, but it happened. For whatever reason, the another party has decided to walk away from my life. No reason, no prediction, just happened. I've been struggling over my emotions for these months. Though, it's not completely healed yet, I'm trying to suppress it, forget it, and changing my focus. However, fighting with the turmoil inside is not easy (right?) So, I've decided to just "LET HIM WALK AWAY" I can't let it go 100%, but I have to. 

First of all, I feel so thankful for all the love & support from family, friends and followers who sent me messages on my Instagram@thequinoxfashion. I was really in a bad shape, but now I'm getting better. For all the girls/guys out there, if you are going through the same situation like me, STOP BLAMING YOURSELF. I was trying to figure out what could have gone wrong, or did I say something to upset another person? However, no matter how much you or me are trying to find the answer from this situation, you won't find one. Because, if she/he wants to walk away, they will need no excuse.

I was taught to say 'sorry' first, even though, I don't do anything wrong. You know, to show the respect. I tried so hard, my sincere apology and the commitment I wanted to offer, none has made anything better. I tried and tried and never gave up. Eventually, I had to battle with myself, in order to fight against reality "He wants to go, that's it. Stop lying to yourself" My love was pure and real, and I gave all my heart & soul. However, I've learnt my lesson in a hard way. Seriously now I just don't know what love is anymore. Maybe I've had my guard up just to protect myself from being hurt again. I wanted to get married, but I guess it's impossible. So, what to do? I guess I have just to let him go, and find his own happiness. I'm not angry, but I just don't understand anything. It feels like I'm left in the dark...Not only I feel disrespected, but also deeply hurt inside. 

Anyway, I was told that "If people are meant to be with you, they will be. If not, they are not meant to be. People who want you will never make you feel sad. They will never make you feel like shit, no matter what. So if he/she wants to walk away, just LET THEM WALK" Don't judge, stop begging (like I did), don't lower yourself just to be treated like this. 



13 comments :

  1. Sorry to hear what you have been going through love. It's not easy but not impossible to get through. Love will come back someday. It didn't feel like it for me for a long long time, but somehow it came. Somewhere down the line.
    xx Jenelle

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  2. Stay strong girl, I got completely messed around by a guy that I opened my heart up to last year and in all honesty I know he never wanted me and now I've accepted that fact I'm so much happier and better without him, I can live my own live to the best I can. I'm here for you and if you ever just want to meet up and cry or rant about shit boyfriends message me ;) xoxo

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  3. I am sorry to hear about your heart ache but you're right. If the other can love you and value you for who you are, there is no reason to try and keep them around. Let them go and you'll end up finding someone who will truly love you for you.

    -Didier
    www.didieryhc.com

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  4. You should never blame yourself in this kind of situation. I'm sure you will find a person who will desrve your love. Glad, you feeling better. You look gorgeous, love your outfit. xx

    Nina's Style Blog

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  5. I'm sorry to hear that so sad for you but don't give up, I believe you will find the good one

    cheers :)

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  6. So sorry to hear what you have been going through. There's nothing worse than giving your all to someone and finding out that it's not reciprocated. I know it doesn't help when you're feeling so heartbroken but know that there is someone else out there who is more deserving of your love :) xx

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  7. Love your honest post on love and you look so fab!
    xoxo, Vanessa
    www.WhatWouldVWear.com

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  8. So sorry to hear this~ Just remember that you deserve the best.

    Vivian | LIVE IN LOVE
    IG | @viviyunn_

    ~

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  9. I'm so sorry to heart about what you're going through right now dear. You may have already heard this, but I'll just say it again - you're stronger than you think. Keep your headup. There's a rainbow always after the rain.

    Jessica | notjessfashion.com

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