Monday, October 22, 2018

How to Deal with Toxic People

📍Bangkok, Thailand

"We are all different" Just in case, we have to remind ourselves that we are not going to be pleased by others all the time. The more I grow up, the more I learn to control my frustration towards people. Or maybe, I am just an introvert person (what it's like to be introvert?) -->> I love animal more than human (lol) Every day in life, I have come across many types of human-being; Show off (a.k.a. talk shit), Coward, Drama ass, and etc. However, today I'm just gonna talk about how to deal with those who love to show off. Because I think everyone has faced this type of annoying person at some points in life, especially at school, office, or even department store. I think the most important advice is to 'keep it low-key'

Not saying I'm the best person in this world, but seriously I hate people who love bragging. I'm not a monk, and I can't stay calm 24/7. Sometimes, it annoys me so much that I have to relieve that stress before I'm going crazy. Have you ever met those who love to tell you what to do? When it comes to your expertise, they don't know shit about you, but assume that you need a guideline...I mean, I wish people could just zip the mouth. I'm very opened to the new knowledge and more than happy to get the advice/comment from others. But not from those who can only talk & talk. I give so much respect to people who good at what they are doing. Because I want to learn from such inspiration just like that.

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However, those who don't know what you are already good at, yet keep talking about what you should/should not do, I mean, the best thing is to keep it quite and show them by action. I always believe that 'action speaks louder than words' and it's true. Because some can just only talk...I know it can be very annoying when you are being pressured by the conversation you don't want to hear, but trust me, keep it low-key and act normal is the best way to deal with this type of toxic people. It's happened to me a lot, especially when I've stepped into the adult's working world. No matter where I go, I always meet the show off type. No judging, but those whom I've met are 90% nerd...And it pisses me off. So, I keep it quite like shhhhhhhhh. I mean I never brag to people where I graduated, countries I've been, my success, or even what's my expertise, I tell them if they are only curious. Or I talk about my experience when I only apply for the job, or those who need advice in a certain thing. (Apart from being a blogger of The Equinox Fashion, I also do a lot of things, especially about the social media marketing) Those who love showing their knowledge or experience always act like mr. know it all, right? But they don't. I've listened to a lot of YouTube videos and I've come to the point of realizing 

"Those who love bragging can only brag. Those who love competing can only destruct themselves mentally. Keep it low-key. Real people don't talk, they show what they've got. 


  1. I'm agree about this too! For me, now I try to not to hear that kind of toxic people out there, meanwhile actually they got nothing in theirselves. I learn to talk less and do more now to 'fight' toxic people.
    Such an inspiring post!


  2. great post! i totally agree :D

  3. Amazing post. I think this will help so many! I think part of life is experience some kind of toxicity and it's such an important topic to keep conversating on.

  4. This is great, toxic people can be so hurtful! Just keep on keeping on! You look great, hun!

  5. Couldn't agree more dear. Toxic people can suck the life out of you.

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