Sunday, December 16, 2018

3 Types of Men You Should Never Date

📍Bangkok, Thailand



My friends were right, I should have loved myself before sharing my love to someone else. At the age of 29, I have learnt a lot about 'love & relationship' Honestly, it's not easy for me. Such a sensitive topic, yet essential for all of us. Though I am a blogger of The Equinox Fashion, I am just a normal woman. I guess everyone has been through a heart broken situation or a stressful one, which you wish you could disappear for 1 day. Based on my experience, here are 3 types of men you should never date. Because honestly, I am now much happier without them. (This can be applicable to both men and women, but I'm a woman, so I'm writing regarding from our perspective) Don't judge me. 


1. SELFISH MAN IS A D****



What do I mean by selfish? A guy who usually thinks about himself. "I think I have to work, can you see me near my workplace?", "I'm from this country, this is what men do", " I'm sorry, but this is my culture. You need to learn", "Sorry, I will call you when I'm free"...Seriously, what the actual f***?! This type of guy thinks that he is the center of the universe. The only thing he needs is convenience in order to fulfill his need. In other words, he never thinks about what you need, or what makes you happy. One of my ex was just exactly like this. I was the one who tried to please him about everything. At the end of the day, I asked myself "Why did I do that? He didn't even deserve it" 

2. WEAK MAN WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO TAKE CARE OF YOU, OR EVEN YOUR LIFE.


Seriously, this is very important. A weak man, for me, means a guy who are too afraid to confront, say opinion, or express what's in his mind. All he does is running away from a problem or confrontation. At first, I thought it was ok...BUT IT WILL NEVER BE OK! How could you rely on this type of man who can't capable of being upfront? Think about it! Do you think if something bad happen, will he protect you or you protect him? I think the latter lol

3. A MAN WHO CAN ONLY TALK IS JUST NAH

Action always speaks louder than words. So, what else do I need to say ladies? "I will call you whenever I'm free", "I promise, I will be there when you need me" But guess who's there for you when you need him? Your friends. For a simple favor like to text back, but can't really keep that promise. I don't see how can we rely on this type of man in a long run. 


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9 comments :

  1. yup before you can share your love to anyone you must love yourself first and you must happy too so you can find one and it's make you happy too :)

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  2. I dated one of each at least! haha there was a time that I thought all men were the worst. Seriously, I knew how to pick them!
    Leave those ones alone for sure!
    xx Jenelle
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  3. So brave on you to share this. But it needs to be out there to spare future heartbreaks haha. I like this post and yes agree to all of them.

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  4. Cool and edgy look dear. And I absolutely agree with this read. Never settle for less, especially with these type of men.
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  5. Great round up! I really can't stand men that talk more than they act, it's a no go!


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