Monday, February 6, 2017

Love Yourself


I have been listening to Justin Bieber [rock cover by Twenty One Two] and so into it lately. "If you like the way you look that much, then maybe you should go and f*** yourself" <-- Especially, this part, because it's so related to my relationship experience in the past. Maybe, I am not that kind of talkative person, or a girl who tells the world what she has been through in the past. However, here is the post I am willing to share some of my relationship nightmares, which got me stronger nowadays. So, thanks to all those lessons really. Why I am telling you this? Because, you may or may not learn from it, and all I want to say is that "LOVE YOURSELF" is the most important thing you should do before anything else. 


YOU DO NOT NEED A GUY TO TELL YOU WHAT YOU SHOULD/SHOULDN'T LOOK LIKE. 


Seriously, you don't need a man to criticize on your look or what you are wearing. I love listening to feedback, but this is just annoying (for me). I was in a relationship when the guy seemed to love judging me all the time. "Why your nails are painted black?", "Why you don't wear that skirt?", "Why you need to wear a makeup like that?"...C'mon, this's frustrating. Girls, what you wear is none of anybody's business. So, just stay true to who you are! Life is too short to be like everyone else, right? I mean, as long as, you don't dress like going to the strip club in a daytime, that's totally ok. 




WHEN YOU GIVE EVERYTHING TO THAT ONE PERSON, BUT NEVER RECEIVE THE SAME AFFECTION


I always be the person who try (too) hard in the relationship. I always be there, always help, and always willing to spend money on whatever he might like. This is good and bad at the same time...You know, when you put so much effort on the guy you love, but he doesn't seem to give it back 100% just like you, it hurts. Especially, if the person who you are dating doesn't seem to care or text you as much as you text him, it only drives you nuts! Several times I was in the position of waiting for the messages 24/7 I was looking at my phone every 5 minutes, thinking either should I keep texting or stop being annoyance to him. I totally hated it, and I felt like I didn't deserve to be treated like that. What I did was something I would never forgive myself, because I felt so ashamed of my feelings towards the person who treated me like I didn't exist. It took me a week to get a grip of myself, and finally back to the same person. So, ladies, if he doesn't treat you like the way you treat him, just leave. Stop lying to your feelings.




These days, I've felt like I really love myself. There's no point of looking back to the past, because now is 'now' All of those shitty days have taught me to be a stronger person, who doesn't need to rely on the relationship I do not want. I get it, being in a relationship is good because you will always have someone to love and to hold on to, right? But, you can also being in love with yourself, because YOU GOT YOUR BACK girls. 





27 comments :

  1. Luv this post! You shared your personal experiences which will help young girls in their own relationships. #LoveYourself
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  2. I know how it is, it seems like nothing we do is enough for people. I liked the testo very good. Congratulations.

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  3. You look lovely !

    Sara
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  4. you're so right, learning to love ourselves is so important. If we don't have a good relationship with ourselves, how are we supposed to have a good relationship with others, right? And trying too hard can make relationship so stressful- we need to learn to relax a bit.

    love your casual chic look...awesome shorts!

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  5. I love your outfit Gail, so gorgeous!

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  6. Yayy for this post! Good on you for sharing your past experiences! I totally agree that someone who doesn't give as much as you does not deserve you! Im absolutely loving your outfit hun, you always rock quirky t shirts like no one else!

    Rachel xx
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  7. So chic and pretty!

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  8. Love this post so much, learning to love yourself is the best thing you can do because the only person that you're going to have to be with your whole life is yourself xoxo

    Cateaclysmic

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  9. Very inspiring post! Your story was touching too. Thanks for sharing. :)

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  10. I've encountered that feeling before, when you give someone your best but ends up being criticized. It's better and more freeing to live life the way you want to, so I commend you for that. Not a lot of girls do that; as a quote once said, "strong women, may we know them, may we be them, may we raise them". Wishing you a lovely week! :) xo~ Lena
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  11. That the story of my life and the most important like you said it is to learn from it, get stronger and love yourself !
    My new quote : " You can also being in love with yourself, because YOU GOT YOUR BACK girl."
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  12. I love the positivity and self-love in this post Gail - loving yourself is 100% the first step towards loving everything and everyone around you! Gorgeous cobalt blue shade on you, by the way :)

    Gabrielle | A Glass Of Ice x

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  13. Looking amazing babe! xx

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  14. Congratulations that now you really love yourself! You are so right we should allow nobody to treat us in the way you wrote here. Love you in your cool look - as usual!
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
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  15. thank you for your comment. Have a lovely day!<3

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  16. Nice casual look. It's really important that we love ourselves first and foremost. Thanks for sharing such an inspiring post.

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  17. Wonderful outfit:-)

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  18. Love this post, couldn't agree with you more!

    Suki and the City

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  19. You look lovely, your photos are gorgeous and such an inspiring post :) http://www.bauchlefashion.com/2017/02/dear-valentine.html

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  20. such a great post - you shuld always love yourself first. you're looking good (i'm just a teeny bit jealous of the fact that the weather seems incredible over there)! looking forward to reading all your other posts that i've missed, hun! xxx

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  21. Your blog is beautiful !!! I would love to see you on my blog !! Happy day!!!
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  22. I think we've all been in either one or both of those types of relationships. No fun! Still I think we go through them so that we can know exactly what we do want and need in a relationship later on.

    -M

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  23. What a nice blog post, you look awesome here! Great post.


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  24. You look amazing and the text is beautiful.
    Have a great day!
    Nelly.
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