Sunday, June 7, 2015

Stay Weird


Some people think that fashion blogger is such a freedom sphere when we can wear whatever we want. I love seeing a wide variety of styles because it amazes me every time when I see people out there dare to be 'different' However, it is not that easy compared to where I am from. If I wear a black lipstick in Bangkok, Thailand, people will 'stare' and think that I am weird. Fashion in my country is great and more open-minded nowadays, however, there's still a conservative culture exists in the society. People always seem to follow Korean trend when girls need to be white, sweet and so girly. It is really rare to see people with pastel or crazy hair colour since people love judging among another. Some people fear of criticism, or even me who often feel discouraged when others start judging or commenting negatively of how I (supposed to) look. But you know what, just fuck it and stay weird. 


It pisses me off when I hear people say "oh don't wear this" or "no people will think you look weird in this outfit" Others may concern about it because they might worry about you, but ask yourself if you really care of what they are saying? Do you afraid of being judged?

Old days are gone people, this is the new era, new modern society when we are able to express our creative freely. Let the imagination runs wild because we only live once. Actually, what's the point of being the person you don't want to be? I feared of how people would think about me, I really hated those criticism about who I was supposed to be. I was trapped inside that 'box' where I wasn't allow to be who I was. It was a pressure indeed.

If you wanna be who you are, don't be afraid of others' words. You are who you are and no one can change it. 


30 comments :

  1. YESSSS Gail, totally agree! I love your black lipstick too, it's so daring and cool

    Lauren x
    Britton Loves | Lifestyle Food Beauty

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    1. Amen! So true, Gail! Love the grunge vibe of your photos! Really "different" ;-) and I love it!

      Ira / JOURNAL OF STYLE / BLOGLOVIN

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  2. Very nice look !

    Sara,
    http://thecrimeofashion.blogspot.fr

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  3. Love these photos!!

    - Mariah-Ruthel
    http://mariahruthel.blogspot.ca

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  4. Great post! Love that you are really embracing your own style despite what people around you might say - we really should all do that. You are really rocking that black lipstick too - it looks very cool. :)
    theemeralddove21.blogspot.co.uk

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  5. I love your lipstick. Really cool pics. I do me too regardless. It's always in our best interest to embrace who we are and the things we like. Have a fab week. http://fashionablyidu.blogspot.com/

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  6. Love this post! To thine own self be true, right? You look amazing girl. Forget the haterz!

    COOCOO FOR COCO

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  7. Hi,Gail!
    You are so cool.I love your black lip.
    And thank you for your great word!
    We must not be afraid of words of another person.
    I felt motivated!

    akiko

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  8. love your outfit ! will use it as inspiration at my tommorows outfit :D

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  9. I used to be afraid of wearing very dark lipstick(Goth like dark) until recently. I tried it and had so much fun. What's more, people actually loved it.

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  10. Love your lipstick!!! I also want a dark one like that <3

    http://www.thestylishbipolar.com

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  11. Very inspiring post! Definitely is best to dress the way you want to dress, those who truly care about you will be the ones who love you for who you are- dress sense n all! That's what I believe anyway :D Really love your outfit here too, dark lipstick looks gorgeous on you :D

    VioletDaffodils
    xx

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  12. I love your stye way more than whatever is trending in Korea!! keep doing your thang!
    www.samanthamariko.com

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  13. I love it! These pictures are so cool!
    Melanie @ meandmr.com

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  14. i suppose it's more so in thailand or wherever, but i also think that people all around the world will think some fashion trends are strange and judge you, whereas the blogosphere is often so much more accepting and encouraging:-) and i'm definitely all for wearing whatever one wants! stay weird, indeed! :-) xx

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  15. Here in Brazil it is also so many people stop using any clothes he likes only for fear of what others will think about it. This has changed, many people have risked and depends on the place you will wear black lipstick, for example, is super normal and natural. So much depends on the environment you attend.

    "If you wanna be who you are, do not be afraid of others' words. You are who you are and no one can change it."

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  16. I always say life is too short to be anything else but normal.. Love crazy people who live life to the fullest and don't worry about other oppinions. That's the way it should be we are all original,unique..Great job keep on being unique

    Greetings from London!
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  17. your hair wow,great pictures dear
    Even here people are so conservative to a point that there aresome places you can't go dressed in mini
    you look lovely

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  18. Love not only the super cool location but also your look! And it is really interesting that your country is obviously more conservative in fashion ... this was new for me! Happy new week <3
    xx Rena
    International Giveaway: Bags are More Than Fun for Me
    www.dressedwithsoul.com

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  19. Gail these photos are really editorial and cool :) I think the dark lipstick looks great on you! I also think it's fun to be unique, how boring would the world be if we all dressed the same

    Rachel xx
    http://www.thedailyluxe.net

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  20. Yes to this! I'm more likely to wear something if a friend things it's a bit 'out there'. I like to prove people wrong haha!

    Tara x

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  21. Isn't this the truth. America may seem open minded in terms of fashion, but there are places where people will give you a heavy side eye for being different. It's taken me years to get to the point where I don't particularly care about others opinions on my clothes/appearance. My 10 year old niece dresses so crazy (she's going through a bright blue lipstick phase) and I hope for dear life she keeps that confidence/freedom.

    Z · JPOTTER

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  22. not only encouraging people to think out of the box, u also boosted up the level of confidence of the people in this world. this is sublime. i love it .

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  23. Great photos ! I love your hair pretty Gail.
    Yes we are who we are ! :)

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