Stop Complaining and Start Appreciating

My cheek in the first image may look a bit horrid because I am currently allergic to The Body Shop's latest sleeping mask product. Yes, again, the second reaction after the oil serum and moisturiser. I guess, my face just can't tolerate the perfume of this brand. Well, I don't know how to use a photoshop to smoothen my face anyway, so whatever lol However, I still feel appreciated that my face is still in the condition that the rash is not getting worse. At least, there is something I feel good about, right? I used to complain a lot, like literally with every unpleasant or negative thing I came across. Now I have changed to the whole new person, because I have been reading several self-improvement books. Those authors are my mentors, and all of them suggest about having the self-positive visualising, and positive self talk. In short, it means to stop complaining and start appreciating in everything we do.

We all know that life is not easy. The more I grow up, the more I can learn about the attitude of lots of people, and it always surprises me how this positive self-talk always excludes me from those negative thoughts. Some people complain about their jobs, unsatisfying relationships, etc. I do complain sometimes, but only in my head since I feel like such complaining drives me to nowhere. The more we keep saying bad thing, the more it is attracted to us. <--This is what I believe. 

The truth is, I also avoid talking to people who constantly complain about every single bit of their lives because it sounds very depressive. I don't mind listening to people' problems, but I just can't stand when people talk about what they do not want, and keep saying why they haven't got what they want yet. Seriously, it just sounds like an excuse to me.  I am a very hot-tempered one, and I feel frustrated every time when coming across the situation that I don't really feel good about it. I wish I can just be straight up to the people by saying my honest point of view about the work, and how I wish they could change the way things work. Unfortunately, it is not gonna happen, or let say that it can't happen like that in reality unless you want to quit a job suddenly. I know that I am a very honest person, and my words can upset the listeners. I don't really care what they think about me tbh. However, it's better to keep those complaints inside my head rather than having a conflict because I just can't deal with the mind game shit. 

Whenever, I am annoyed by others, I decide to watch movies or TV series all day. I know that I am a person who can't concentrate on my work when I am not in the mood. Therefore, I would rather find a way that makes me feel calm first. You know, 'tomorrow always be the new day', and I believe that working when we are in a good mood is better than forcing ourselves to accomplishing something. I have started to feel appreciated in everything I do, not only blogging, or relationship, but almost every little thing including the way how my phone works in a good condition, or the equipment in the household that still in a good shape. At first, I felt a bit stupid about this, but now it has completely changed me to have a better perspective on the living. 

As mentioned, complaint only drives you crazy 

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