Friday, February 27, 2015

Why You Should Keep Smiling


As they say "Smiling is the great medicine" I absolutely agree 100% because it can literally change the mood instantaneously. 

I am not gonna lie but stress is one of the emotions which I can't avoid or even 'we' can't escape. There are many daily activities, as well as, people' behavior that eventually cause us tension. However, I have been reading self-improvement books for more than 7 years in order to keep myself staying positive. Call me crazy, I think that smiling is the best cure from undesirable mood because it changes my feelings from negative to positive effectively. 

At first I doubted if smiling would really change my feelings or was it just something that the books recommend for their own sake. Even though smiling didn't work for me in the beginning, I had been trying to make it work (Fake it til you make it!). Every time I come across the unexpected situations or unpleasing words/comments from people, I try my best to tell myself "you'd better smile right now" And 5 minutes later, my moods are quickly change from anger to loosen up and finally calm.

I am the type of the person who stuck in my own thoughts, I keep repeating my ideas again and again until it drives me crazy. I get stressed all the time, so it is very crucial for me or even us all to loosen up and choose to stay positive instead of letting bad feelings overwhelm. I rarely feel hatred or angry towards others because why should I? I am one of those relaxing people and I opt for only positive vibe to make myself become peaceful in my own thoughts. 

I don't know about you but whenever I feel stress, I say "oh f*** it" then I am back to the calmness state of my  mind. 





Disco Pants- American Apparel
Heels- New Look
Bag- Paul's Boutique




54 comments :

  1. Nice look:) xx
    Bianka
    http://ruhamania.blogspot.hu/

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  2. Too true, some things are just not worth the stress! Have a great weekend xoxo

    ♥ Cateaclysmic ♥

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  3. Wow looking sexy and amazing in this awesome outfit. Have a great weekend

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  4. That's good that you're always staying positive. We all need to do this:)

    PS Love the outfit, esp. the pants!

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  5. Never thought about smiling when irritated, I might just try it. Though talking to yourself and staying positive helps. I love your fur vest and shades.

    Princess Audu

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  6. You look so amazing !

    Sara,
    http://thecrimeofashion.blogspot.fr

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  7. Great outfit and I love the message! I used to get stressed out ALL THE TIME but I'm learning everyday to just let things go and smile. Some things aren't worth stressing out for which I'm slowly realizing! Thanks for the reminder! I always need it! But really though, your vest is so fab!

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  8. Love your metallic leggings and fur vest na ka!! Suay make <3 You have the best street style!

    http://www.thestylishbipolar.com

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  9. Great look. And smiling is the best medicine :) x

    http://www.fashioliezta.com

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  10. I get the impression we have very similar personalities! I definitely choose to be positive and try to lift up the people around me, even when I'm the one who needs cheering up - I'll fake it on the outside until it sits!

    Tara x

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  11. Y love your style and your blog.
    xoxo
    www.welovefur.com

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  12. Nice:) xx
    Bianka
    http://ruhamania.blogspot.com/

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  13. Smiling has a way of lighting up your day. Nice outfit.

    www.iblogwithgrace.blogspot.com
    www.buffofcolour.blogspot.com

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  14. is it already warm enough to wear tank tops?! you are so lucky!! love that fur vest :)
    www.samanthamariko.com

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  15. You look amazing in the discopants, and I agree with smiling, there's never a time when a smile doesn't make you or someone else better

    Lauren x
    Britton Loves | Lifestyle Food Fashion Beauty - www.brittonloves.blogspot.co.uk

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  16. I agree... Smiling is the great medicine. Sometimes the best medicine.

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  17. You look absolutely beautiful. I really like your outfit and your overall style.

    xx naomi // Naomi in Wonderland

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  18. So true, darling!
    Love this look, especially the vest!

    xoxox,
    CC

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  19. You have a great smile and I love your outfit! xx

    Julie
    www.rainingcake.com

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  20. Love the hat and teh shoes *.*
    http://retromaggie.blogspot.pt/

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  21. Totally agree, a smile is a real light !
    I love this style, your bag and your shoes are stunning ! And I love your smile.
    Kisses beauty :)

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  22. I totally understand! I guess a few years back, a lot of people noticed I never smiled. So I started smiling and my life seemed more positive and carefree. Smiling is one of the best remedies :)
    Olivia | Her Name Was Celebration

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  23. I love the fur! You look amazing!
    Melanie @ meandmr.com

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  24. These beautiful, I really like your shoes. kisses

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  25. Super cool look. I love the pants!

    xx glamdevils.com / miradevils.blogspot.com

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  26. I love this post and you look wonderful and your smile is adorable <3 Keep smiling belongs definitely to the most important mottos in my life and I know it works if one is smiling :)
    xx from Germany/Bavaria, Rena
    www.dressedwithsoul.com

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  27. Great advice, i find smiling makes me get into a better mood! Loving the shoes too!

    Emma at www.collagemepretty.blogspot.co.uk

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  28. Aww such a sweet post and I love your shoesies missy! :)

    beautyandtheb1.blogspot.co.uk

    B x

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  29. Gail you look super chic! I love those pants though I was not look nearly as good as you! Stay awesome dear! :) xo~ Lena
    www.felinecreatures.com

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  30. yes you're right! smiling does help lift your mood up :) or in this case, seeing your beautiful smile! hehe

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  31. Keep smiling! Stay fashionable!

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  32. Nice bag!!

    xx

    http://www.madridforniagirl.com/

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  33. I love your system of dealing with stress, I often find I have a 'break off' point where I reach and then just throw my arms up and walk away haha. Great look on you here by he way, I love the confidence you wear your clothes with! :)

    Gabrielle | A Glass Of Ice
    x

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  34. You're right, I have the same experience!! In order to smile I try to think of a person I love - and immediately every things seems less bad :)
    You look lovely!

    Rosa
    Styleyourselfinstyle.blogspot.com

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  35. Awesome styl ! great sunglasses :) kisses

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  36. Really great style, I love the mixture of blues and black an your proved how great it looks. plus I'm a sucker for any lady in a hat :D
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  37. Giiirrrllll, you have such an amazing sense of style! I love how you always mix and match your fabrics and textures :) The gilet is so cute, especiallyy with the leather leggings :) Looooking good

    Rachel xx
    http://www.thedailyluxe.net

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  38. Awesome look! Cool vest! =)

    NEW POST on http://whattostyle.blogspot.com/

    xoxo,
    Jessica

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  39. you look so amazing dear!
    Love your sense of style <3

    Wish you a lovely day,
    Mona xx

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  40. Such a cool styling!
    I this sunglasses is distinctive!
    I love it♡

    akiko

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  41. You look amazing! I love your vest, your sandals and your hat!
    Obsessed Fashion Blog

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  42. Very nice top!

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