Thursday, January 5, 2017

2017 Resolution? Learn How Not to Give A F*** EP.1



2016, I cared way TOO MUCH about what others were thinking about me. It was such a waste of time, like I spent so much energy trying to figure out why... Why people unfollowed me on Instagram? Why certain people didn't treat me the way I treated them? Why some of my friends never congratulated my success? These questions were seriously shit to be honest...We all have different resolutions this year, but if you ask what is mine? Frankly, 'not to give A F' is the answer. Why you should have the same goal as mine? Because it can make you feel so weightless and happy about life even more.

REASONS WHY GIVING A F*** ABOUT EVERY THING CAN GET YOU OFF GUARD


Once you are getting deeper in your thoughts, I would call a 'crisis moment' Look no further and take my example. I don't know if you are the same, but I am a very caring person. When someone judge me, or give me some negative comments, I tend to repeat them more than 10 times a day. Seriously, I look calm & cool, but deep down I have a lot of questions in my head. And it is not good at all, because it only keeps me off guard. I think human-being is similar to one another anyway. When you let someone's words inside your head, you will never be able to get rid of it. Not just once, but you will start concerning about everything else. Especially, on the social media like Instagram, most of the bloggers I know tend to have a break as claimed that they just can't take it anymore. It is fun if you use the platform for killing time or connect with friends, but for those who take it seriously (like me) That is when the tension occurs. 

Only 30% of people whom I met are the type of carefree, and I am so jealous!

HOW TO STOP THINKING ABOUT IT!


It sounds easier than done, yet it works! Though, it may take time to master the IDGAF attitude, it is worth to practice. You can't tell others to think or talk shit about you because there are both who like and dislike you. "Hey you can't tell ne that I look horrible!" <-- You can't control others, remind yourself this. Trust me, 1 dislike button on my YouTube channel got me frustrated all day haha....However, you are the only one who can stop it before it gets worse. You are the owner of emotions and thoughts, so you know how to stop going crazy in less than 5 seconds. ''STOP RIGHT NOW'' is what I tell myself every time I am about to get crazy. What if it doesn't work? Try to distract yourself by doing something else. 

Ask yourself if the person who get you obsessed about the comments worth the time? Is he your boyfriend? Someone you love? Do they pay for your school? Do they take care of you? If not, then just don't give a f*** You don't deserve it, and they are not worth your time at all. Your time is precious, so you don't need to waste your time on those who do not deserve it. You know life is too short, and everyday is the new day. So, why dwelling in the past? 




16 comments :

  1. Love the attitude babe! As you get older, you realize you can give 2 effs what anyone else thinks! Preach honey!
    Thank you for the blog visit babe, hope to see you back soon! Happy New Year!

    Xx- Julie | Haute Khuuture Blog

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  2. Haha love this!

    Happy new year lovely!

    Alya | MoorizZLA xxx

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  3. I have seen or read quite a few new year resolutions this week but girl, yours is the best one. Keep it up girl. Have a great weekend <3

    xoxo Eva | www.evakindles.com

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  4. That's the best resolution! We all waste so much time and energy on things that are outside of our control. It's even worse when you consider the fact that the random Instagram comment that's got you down is probably from someone who you haven't even met. hah So not worth it!

    Violet Roots || Instagram

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  5. Haha, great attitude to have!

    Face to Curls | http://facetocurls.com

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  6. This is the best new year's resolution I have heard so far! It can be so draining worrying about what people think of you all the time, especially on Instagram! I too hope to go into this year with a more positive attitude and not let what random people think of me, get me down!
    x Emily
    http://shedoes.com.au

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  7. I like your fashionable look and style

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  8. This is a great resolution hun, I also decided not to let people get to me this year. Hopefully it will be a great year!

    xo
    www.carinavardie.com

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  9. Fantastic post, I like your outfit :)

    new post
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  10. Great post! Love your look! <3

    www.fashion-utopia.com

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  11. great post!
    - www.youthofthesun.com

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  12. This is a great post hun! Yes caring less about what negative people say will greatly improve our wellbeing (and sanity too). Wishing you a happy and positive start to 2017! xo~ Lena
    www.thewanderliste.com

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  13. Amazing pics!
    Happy New Year!
    Gil Zetbase
    http://gilzetbase.com/

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  14. Loooooove the attitude here! Such a kick asss post and just what I needed to be reading right now.

    Lovely photos too, crackin' outfit lady!

    katie xx lacoconoire.com

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  15. Love the look and the photos !

    Sara
    www.thecrimeofashion.com

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  16. Dear Gail, your resolutions are making absolutely sense to me! I'm happy that normally I don't tend to care about other people and I know that my life therefore is really much easier. Let the other people how they are ... the most important person in your life are you <3 Cool look btw!
    xx from Bavaria/Germany, Rena
    www.dressedwithsoul.com

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