How To Stop Judging Yourself

According to the previous post 'How to not feel overwhelmed by social media', the next step of uplifting the spirit is how to stop judging 'yourself' How many times have we asked ourselves, and compared to others. To be honest, I have questioned myself several times. As mentioned, sometimes I feel really overwhelmed by the industry and it makes me doubt whether I  am gonna be able to accomplish the goal I have set. I believe that we all have the reasons to blog. We want to become a successful blogger, in order to get opportunities to work with brands, earn money, and live the life freely. Trust me, stop saying bad things about yourself, because if others can make it, so are you.

WHAT TO DO WHEN HAVING NO MOTIVATION TO BLOG?

How do I get back up, and continue on writing this blog when I feel so down? It actually takes me a few days to breath and just think about nothing related to my blog. It's like recharging my battery of both physical and mental. Whenever the battery is fulled, I always say to my reflection 'bitch, I am back' What I am writing right now sounds easy, but it's not. I think everyone has had this moment when things are not going on the right track, right? However, ask yourself if you want to dwell in that moment forever and let it win over your passion. It is weird, but rock music is my fuel. So, every time that I need something to cheer me up, and to light a fire in me, I blast the music so loud till I can smile. You guys might have an inspirational blogger to look up to, but I have started The Equinox Fashion blog by my passion in music. Therefore, it is something, which motivates me all the time. 

HOW TO STOP JUDGING YOURSELF?

Simply tell your mind to stop. I have read a lot of books, especially the meditation ones. Most of the authors recommend the readers to just let the emotions run wild, yet still in control of them. When I feel ashamed of myself, I know. When I feel down, I realize with all my heart. It would sound like a fantasy to say that I have never judged myself, because it is bullshit. I might do for a few minutes, but then I will ask myself instantly "what do I gain from saying all the bad things about me?" I don't know if this method work for you, but it is effective for me. Once, I ask that question, the answer usually stops me from digging further. It is like 'I guess that's it' moment, when I just want to stop thinking.